The past few years have been the most painful and the most transformative in my life. I’m starting to feel the urge to write again and, having come through the fire, would like to share my current vision for how … Continue reading I Choose to Love

I invite you to suspend disbelief for a few minutes and follow me on a radical thought experiment, or better yet, a radical heart experiment. First, if you don’t already share this assumption, I ask you to allow the possibility … Continue reading A Global Heart

I reluctantly became polyamorous 25 years ago when my wife, Guin, asked to open our marriage.  Over time, however, poly has shifted my worldview and identity to the point where it’s hard to imagine living any other way (you can … Continue reading Pros and Cons of Polyamory