ABC’s The Golden Bachelor wrapped up in November, the wedding is set for January 4, and I have feelings about it. If you haven’t heard of The Bachelor, it’s a show where one eligible bachelor or bachelorette dates up to … Continue reading The Golden Bachelor: Our Fascination with the Fantasy of Monogamy
I came up with the 21 principles as a way to be clear to myself and my potential partners about my philosophy on ethically non-monogamous relationships. It is the distillation of ingredients I believe are necessary for healthy polyamorous relationships, … Continue reading 21 Principles for Thriving in Polyamorous Relationships
The past few years have been the most painful and the most transformative in my life. I’m starting to feel the urge to write again and, having come through the fire, would like to share my current vision for how … Continue reading I Choose to Love
I invite you to suspend disbelief for a few minutes and follow me on a radical thought experiment, or better yet, a radical heart experiment. First, if you don’t already share this assumption, I ask you to allow the possibility … Continue reading A Global Heart
He was married, nineteen years older, and my supervisor at the start-up he founded. We “met” when I published a blog article about Findhorn, and he emailed to tell me that he liked it. This led to a year-long conversation … Continue reading I Survived a Dysfunctional Polyamorous Relationship and Learned Some Lessons About Love
The marriage of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle made me a romantic again, but love is not always roses and tiaras. My partner recently went through a crisis where his wife withdrew her consent for our relationship a year and … Continue reading An Ethical Framework for Relationship Agreements
Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, directed by Angela Robinson, came out in October 2017, and has been hailed as a groundbreaking, trailblazing film that positively portrays polyamory. “For Professor Marston’s Bill, Elizabeth and Olive, polyamory isn’t a one-off tryst; … Continue reading Professor Marston and the Wonder Women is Not a Depiction of a Fair and Healthy Polyamorous Relationship
“I feel like my life is a train. I pull into a station, cry for ten minutes, the train goes on, only to stop a few hours later to have another emotional breakdown,” I said to my friend in Chicago. … Continue reading Healing from a Poly Relationship
Conscious Polyamory: A blog about loving more than one 